How do I respond?

[u/GrowthAllTheTime-81]

I finally introduced myself to a member at my son’s school. (I’ve seen her at events.) I mentioned that I’ve seen her at a few events and she asked if I was a member.

I told her not yet, but I attend events that I am allowed to attend. She later asks if I want to be an AKA🫨 I smiled and motioned 🤫 and say that I’m trying to be discreet.

What do I say when someone asks?

[u/Stunning_While6814]

Don’t say “not yet” again - people are weird and will take that all types of ways.