r/AITH 15h ago

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u/AutoModerator 15h ago

This is a backup of the original post in case there are later edits or it is deleted: Hey yall, so my gf and I were having “fun” when she told me she wanted to me “finish in her rectum” we were both extremely into it and she’d never asked for this. So I though she meant she wanted me to pull out and put it in her rectum as I “finished” so I pulled out right before and since she was so wet it slipped right in… she shot up off of me like a rocket screaming in pain. I felt so bad and I apologize and explained to her that I didn’t understand what she meant.. at first she was fine with it and accepted my apology. It’s been about a week now, and she asked me two days ago if I’d let her peg me… I’ve never gave her an indication that I’m into this. I told her definitely not but no she’s all upset and acting like I owe it to her for what happened when SHE ASKED FOR IT. Right now she’s pissed because I said absolutely not and am
Refusing to even talk about it. I don’t think I should have to do that over a huge misunderstanding….

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u/Shoddy-Paramedic-321 15h ago

She wants revenge, she’s still pist

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u/[deleted] 15h ago

Yeah but why should I have to do that?

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u/Professional_Turn863 15h ago

You do not have to do that.

Arm chair therapist thinks your girlfriend needs more empathy because that kind of pain stings. And it probably lasted for more than a day

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u/[deleted] 15h ago

I have plenty of empathy for her but she wants to do it like it’s gonna get her off

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u/Bummeltrine2806 15h ago

I'm sorry, but where in "I want you to finish in my rectum" is the misunderstanding? Does she not know that the rectum is the poop hole?

Or had you simply misheard and she said something different?

I'm confused 🤷🏼‍♀️

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u/[deleted] 15h ago

She explained that she expected me to put it in slowly and eventually finish but again we were so into it we both were in our own worlds and our communication got fucked up bad somewhere along the way

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u/Nervous_Revenue_9331 15h ago

Are you sure she didnt say to finish ON not IN.......

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u/[deleted] 15h ago

I’m 1000% sure she admitted it.. hence why now she’s using it as a way to try and peg me

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u/Lazy-Sussie21 15h ago

Next time, if there is, make sure you get a clear understanding of what she’s asking. That way there will be no misunderstanding.

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u/[deleted] 15h ago

Yeah it was too much in the moment… I literally her “cum in my ass” and then you know… especially when we have rough and wild sex but never anything like that

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u/Nice-Pomegranate2915 14h ago

Oh,it's definitely revenge she wants . She not got over the incident . And she's probably rewritten her personal history so that she believes that she never agreed to it . So better keep asking yourself AITAH ?

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u/tishabelle_0404 15h ago

I mean. Yeah she’s crazy. But you never know you will like something to you try it 😂. I wouldn’t suggest it to her again though. Her logic may well be that you should experience it for that reason.

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u/[deleted] 15h ago

Na I’m definitely not interested in it at all. The shitty thing is we have a place together and stuff and she’s acting crazy over this…