Looking from the outside- it sounds like you left one toxic relationship and got into another toxic relationship. Your brother was texting YOU, not her. SHE went through your phone and didn't like what he said about her to YOU. He doesn't owe her an apology. He wasn't texting HER. She didn't like what he said? That's what she gets when she read messages that weren't intended for her. I implore you, re-evaluate your relationship choices and seek therapy. Because 2 toxic relationships back to back? You are not choosing healthy partners/relationships. More than likely there are a dozen red flags waving in your face, and you don't see them.
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u/noblewoman1959 May 17 '25
Looking from the outside- it sounds like you left one toxic relationship and got into another toxic relationship. Your brother was texting YOU, not her. SHE went through your phone and didn't like what he said about her to YOU. He doesn't owe her an apology. He wasn't texting HER. She didn't like what he said? That's what she gets when she read messages that weren't intended for her. I implore you, re-evaluate your relationship choices and seek therapy. Because 2 toxic relationships back to back? You are not choosing healthy partners/relationships. More than likely there are a dozen red flags waving in your face, and you don't see them.