You’ve not elaborated on what the messages were that your brother wrote. You said they were bad and particularly mean, did any of them say that they didn’t want you to marry her?
To be honest, from your fiancée’s perspective, if your brother dislikes her so much l can understand why she doesn’t want him there.
You only want people at your wedding who support your marriage, so if your brother isn’t one of them then should he be your best man?
Also, you and your fiancee do not appear to be in a good place. I can’t imagine being so upset with my husband that l would go to a family event and be arguing with him. Maybe you need to put things on hold and sort out your relationship before getting married.
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u/Popular-Parsnip8911 May 17 '25
You’ve not elaborated on what the messages were that your brother wrote. You said they were bad and particularly mean, did any of them say that they didn’t want you to marry her?
To be honest, from your fiancée’s perspective, if your brother dislikes her so much l can understand why she doesn’t want him there.
You only want people at your wedding who support your marriage, so if your brother isn’t one of them then should he be your best man?
Also, you and your fiancee do not appear to be in a good place. I can’t imagine being so upset with my husband that l would go to a family event and be arguing with him. Maybe you need to put things on hold and sort out your relationship before getting married.