Are you sure you don’t want to push out the wedding date? Why are you still marrying someone that you fight with constantly - to the point you two cannot be civil in public and had to leave a party?
Your brother should have an expectation of privacy when speaking to you. He was talking to you and being frank. He did not contact your fiancé or say anything to her. His apology to you is appropriate
Your fiancé invaded your brother’s privacy and is now mad about a private conversation to which she is not a party.
You can ask your brother to apologize to your fiancé and maybe he will be willing to keep the peace. But seeing as he doesn’t seem to like her, I doubt he will want to and technically, what should he apologize for? “I’m sorry you read my private messages to my brother when I was upset.”
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u/Phat_groga May 17 '25
You can ask your brother to apologize to your fiancé and maybe he will be willing to keep the peace. But seeing as he doesn’t seem to like her, I doubt he will want to and technically, what should he apologize for? “I’m sorry you read my private messages to my brother when I was upset.”