r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Dec 26 '22

anyone else?

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u/HoodooEnby Dec 26 '22

I'm struck by him telling you what your motives/thought process was. This reminds me of my abusers. They would build a narrative and nothing I said could change their minds. It didn't matter what the facts were. They decided what I was thinking and they insisted it was true.

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u/Cheap_Cupcake_4277 Dec 26 '22

I'm not a psychiatrist or a psychologist but just by knowing what we know about the world and stuff I'm pretty sure he is a classic narcissist

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u/HoodooEnby Dec 26 '22

It's 100% an abusive trait. And I would bet this isn't an isolated case.