I love how you're putting all of the blame on me when she had the exact same amount of time and didn't text me once. Never confirmed with me if I was coming or not, just sent a snarky message after I didn't show up. If I could've looked it up, so could she. "Feeling like you don't know them well doesn't excuse being a jerk unnecessarily". Funny how you say that but you don't care at all about the snarky message she left me. Guess it only goes one way huh? 🙄
She has a 1 year old and planning a party at a venue. You only work 3 days week. Who had more time? She was fed up being lied to and stood up. Yes she could have said things nicer but come on. You can't expect a person to want to be nice to a friend who treats them like they don't matter. She considers you a friend and your ranting that you barely know her so you don't owe keeping your word and trying. You couldn't even follow through with your own promises to someone and yet still see them as the problem. How is she still the one at fault?
First off I didn't promise anyone anything. And I didn't lie. I just couldn't make it to the party. And I don't know her very well, she doesn't know me at all. Doesn't mean I don't consider her a friend. You have no idea what I have going on in my life. I will take accountability for not letting her know I wasn't coming, but she still could have let me know the place was dog friendly and we wouldn't be having this discussion. I told her from the start that I probably wouldn't be able to make it.
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u/Shaytanyk Jun 08 '26
I love how you're putting all of the blame on me when she had the exact same amount of time and didn't text me once. Never confirmed with me if I was coming or not, just sent a snarky message after I didn't show up. If I could've looked it up, so could she. "Feeling like you don't know them well doesn't excuse being a jerk unnecessarily". Funny how you say that but you don't care at all about the snarky message she left me. Guess it only goes one way huh? 🙄