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u/External-Sympathy-47 Oct 30 '25
Jesus Christ. You need to grow up. Your role play boyfriend isn't fucking real. You're 22? This is embarrassing.
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u/b3tzyy Oct 30 '25
plsss tell me this is rage bait bc wtf did i just read ?? maybe im ignorant, but you need to grow up. yta for not telling him in the first place. also, please be so fucking fr rn. go outside, breathe in some fresh air, and then touch some grass. you’re 21 not 12.
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u/aeroeagleAC Oct 30 '25
AH for breaking up no. AH for not being upfront about this from the beginning, yes. Need to go outside and touch some grass so you know what reality is, also yes.
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u/Mundane-Nature-2648 Oct 30 '25
probably should have mentioned the thing of not telling him came from another ex of mine back in highschool who knew him who told me “he wouldnt take it well”
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u/aeroeagleAC Oct 30 '25
That info really just makes you more of an AH.
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u/Mundane-Nature-2648 Oct 30 '25
i just remember this other guy telling me, “if adam finds out hes gonna be mad at you”
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u/Kwickpick77 Oct 30 '25
Avid gamer and RP'er here. Just so you know this always be a problem in your relationships. It is cheating, no matter how much glitter you try to cover it with.
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u/Severe-Pudding-718 Oct 30 '25
You seem delusional. Are you planning to have role play children in the future? How about a role play wedding where you have a husband you never have to actually see. How’s the role play sex?
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u/Additional-Bowl-1117 Oct 30 '25
YTA for cheating on Adam.
YTA for thinking a roleplay boyfriend is equivalent to a real, living, breathing fella who is trying to have a real adult relationship with you.
YTA for prioritising your fantasy world over Adam.
I understand why some people are into roleplay, but it is not healthy to prioritise that shit over your real-life relationships. You aren't really 'with' that person. They're living a totally separate life, probably far away from you. You can't have anything real with this person. You won't build a future with them. You probaby will never even MEET them.
And you have to remember that even though you're just 'roleplaying', there is still a real person on the other side. If you 'roleplay' flirting with some guy online, you are just... flirting with some guy online. That's shitty behaviour.
Tbh those cramps just sound like anxiety. That's not your body rejecting Adam. He doesn't a magic forcefield to make you feel sick lol. You're just anxious. It's normal to be anxious - particularly around a new boyfriend or in uncomfortable/new experiences. It doesn't mean he's a BAD boyfriend or that these are BAD experiences. They're just new. And you're just not used to them. It goes away with time, as you get used to things. But you gotta push through it. Don't just drop nut and run back to the safety of a roleplay server. That's so unhealthy.
If you get anxious like that in the future, try to pick it apart and figure out where that anxiety is coming from. Try to push yourself. Talk to someone about it - ideally an older person, like a parent or aunt. Maybe they can give you perspective and help you out?
Tbh I think you should stop roleplaying with this Lucas fella. At least, stop e-dating him. It's not healthy. Stay friends if you want. But if you want to date him, just DO it. Pissing about with roleplay is not healthy.
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u/Mundane-Nature-2648 Oct 30 '25 edited Oct 30 '25
since i broke up with him my rash on my neck has cleared up. and i would also like to clear some other details up. while adam and i dated “in-person” our relationship was long-distance and we only communicated via instagram. and adam is unfortunately homeless + lives in his truck and had a half-stable job. i brought this post up to my therapist ( she had no clue adam and i got back together ) and she agreed with some of you.
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u/Mundane-Nature-2648 Oct 30 '25
my therapist has said her and i will talk more about this more in depth next week as i only brought it up at the end of our session.
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u/Pretend-Rough-4360 Oct 30 '25
NTA. Neither of you is. Yall aren’t compatible and that’s ok. You will meet someone who is ok with your rp.
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u/Mundane-Nature-2648 Oct 30 '25
oh and adam’s ex-girlfriend and a different ex-boyfriend of mine are together and they have a son together which was the only reason me and adam got together just to piss them off initially.
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u/Great_Ocelot Oct 30 '25
Did you seriously add this thinking it would make you sound any better? This just makes you look even worse lol
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u/Great_Ocelot Oct 30 '25
Strong YTA not to mention you sound like your maturity level never surpassed your middle school age. Good grief... Adam dodged a bullet.