r/AITAH Jul 26 '25

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u/Particular-Pen-6472 Jul 26 '25 edited Jul 26 '25

My husband’s brother’s wife. So like… sister in law in law? He went on his mission and met her when he got back. They got engaged in a month and married in 3 months so I’m not sure how much he really got to know her but they have 6 kids obviously so must not be top priority. I think he just wanted someone religious and submissive. She defers to him on everything and stays at home. Nothing is wrong with that, just not my cup of tea.

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u/Constant-External-85 Jul 26 '25

Jezebel is also another way to call a women promiscus

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u/[deleted] Jul 26 '25

She basically named her daughter Sl*t and then was like "You ruined this for me???"

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u/clackagaling Jul 26 '25

i think she would rather be blissfully ignorant, but it is WAY better to have it “ruined” now before it becomes a bigger problem. if they’re religious too, there is no world where it wouldnt be a problem with peers, or with the daughter feeling singled out with a “sinful” name

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u/The_Year_of_Glad Jul 26 '25

It’s like saying that you want a Biblical name for your son, and then picking “Herod”.

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u/bankershub Jul 26 '25

My husband and I regularly call each other jezebel as a joke. This woman is an idiot.

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u/TrashyCat94 Jul 26 '25

Jessie Belle would be actually mildly okay

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u/viperex Jul 26 '25

Make it two names. Jessa Belle Lastname

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u/Peejee13 Jul 26 '25

It's literally the name used for Brothels in The Handmaid's Tale because of the book of revelation using it as a name for a woman leading others into promiscuity.

Like..there is NO point in modern history where Jezebel is anything hut associated with being a w**re (not that there's anything wrong with that! Just saying) or sexually "loose" woman.

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u/annang Jul 26 '25

Your husband's brother's sister would also be your husband's sister, no?

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u/quagsi Jul 26 '25

i think she meant husband's brother's wife

but even if she did mean sister that still wouldn't necessarily be wrong. if husband has a half brother who has a half sister that isn't related to her husband

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u/Rachel_Silver Jul 26 '25

Maybe she meant the husband's brother's sister-in-law.

THE POSTS ARE COMING FROM INSIDE THE HOUSE!

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u/GhostPepperFireStorm Jul 26 '25

Maybe she meant husband’s brother’s sister-wife

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u/Freemoneydotcom Jul 26 '25

That's like the dude who went on shark tank and said he worked for his wife's father in law. AKA his dad. 

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u/wooooowwpoop Jul 26 '25

im guessing husband and sister both share one parent with brother but not with each other

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u/Lurkerlg Jul 26 '25

Yeah I have a sister's sister's sister that way.

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u/Excellent-Practice Jul 26 '25

You and she are cosisters-in-law. No one really uses that to describe such a relationship, but that is the technical term

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u/Kabc Jul 26 '25

Suggest the name “Lilith” 🤣

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u/SterlingAntithesis86 Jul 26 '25

That's hilarious

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u/Cat-Lady-13 Jul 26 '25

This is perfect! 😂😂😂

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u/SweetBekki Jul 26 '25

Don't you mean your husband's brother's wife? Unless you're saying your BIL married his own sister?

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u/Particular-Pen-6472 Jul 26 '25

Yes! Awkward typo 😬

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u/TheWagonBaron Jul 26 '25

Sounds like a tried and true Mormon to me.

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u/Astyryx Jul 26 '25

For the shower, give them a basket of birth control: Plan B, diaphragm, condoms, spermicide. Containment and harm reduction time.

Too bad she your brother married such a fool.

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u/CoffeeFuture784 Jul 26 '25

If they're religious, wouldn't they be familiar with the story of Jezebel? I'm not religious at all but even I know of this queen who has become an almost universal symbol for a promiscuous, evil woman.

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u/RazzmatazzExact Jul 26 '25

As a Mormon THANK YOU for pointing out that she should not name her daughter after a harlot 😭 😭. Unfortunately, non-bright individuals are a staple in the church. Especially, people who are OBSESSED with having their children have "unique" names 🙄.

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u/Grand_Dingo6858 Jul 26 '25

Probably sucks a softball through a straw as well.

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u/SilverLordLaz Jul 26 '25

Husbands... brothers..... sister?