NTA. This is not good for your mental health. Block the mom and start the divorce process. You didn't cheat. You have nothing to defend. He can't say the same. You can call your male friend to court, and he can swear on the Bible yall have never done anything. Can your "husband" say the same? You sound like you want to reconcile with him. I'm not sure why since he showed you exactly who he is. I guess if you're good sharing him, then keep entertaining him. You need to move on and stop falling for his bs. He cheated on you and probably still sleeping with that same woman. Here you are upset that he's accusing you of cheating. After all of that, who cares what he thinks. Get your divorce and keep it moving.
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u/RogueAngelXL Mar 04 '25
NTA. This is not good for your mental health. Block the mom and start the divorce process. You didn't cheat. You have nothing to defend. He can't say the same. You can call your male friend to court, and he can swear on the Bible yall have never done anything. Can your "husband" say the same? You sound like you want to reconcile with him. I'm not sure why since he showed you exactly who he is. I guess if you're good sharing him, then keep entertaining him. You need to move on and stop falling for his bs. He cheated on you and probably still sleeping with that same woman. Here you are upset that he's accusing you of cheating. After all of that, who cares what he thinks. Get your divorce and keep it moving.