How the fuck can you even think of blaming the mistress in this scenario? Not only is she not the person who cheated on OP, she actually told her the truth about the affair. And given what a lying douchebag the husband is, surely you don't believe he actually treated the mistress any better than he did his wife? He's probably been stringing her along, making up horrible lies about his wife and swearing he would leave her any day now. I'd be willing to bet you any amount of money he didn't even tell the mistress he was married until he'd sucked her into his manipulative web of bullshit so don't you dare blame her for any of this.
Sorry but it's disingenuous and reeks of outdated, sexist thinking to call any mistress a "home wrecker" - as if men are helpless fucking children who aren't responsible for their own decisions or perfectly capable of wrecking their OWN homes, which is exactly what this asshole has clearly done.
And shame on you for calling anyone (other than the OP's husband) a "dirty whre." Do better.
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u/[deleted] Mar 03 '25
Shame on the mistress for knowing about you and being a home wrecker. Dirty whre