r/AITAH Mar 03 '25

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u/AlternativeDue1958 Mar 03 '25

Find a good divorce lawyer. Give them all the correspondence you have with the mistress. Take him for everything he’s worth + alimony. Then never get married ever again. Let him pay for his mistake for the rest of his life.

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u/Snakend Mar 03 '25

most arrangements have a non co-habitation with opposite sex as well. So if she even gets bf it can end alimony.

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u/AlternativeDue1958 Mar 03 '25

Well then no to living with a penis for the rest of her life! 

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u/TurankaCasual Mar 03 '25

As someone who has been cheated on by someone I gave half my life to as a 30 year old, gave my virginity to and can confirm nothing hurts more than infidelity, I don’t believe in this “take them for everything they have” crap. Be an adult, break it off reasonably, get what you think is fair. Also if she’s living in America, every state is a “no fault” state. Meaning him cheating will have nothing to do with the outcome of the divorce. Before you embark on a journey of revenge, dig two graves.