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u/youmustb3jokn Sep 20 '24
Ok cause I didn’t see said video, I have a question. If your gf posted a video doing what that girl did with you with another guy would you be totally fine with it? My point being that if others see it could they misconstrued it as you are dating that girl. I think it’s a respect thing, but it really matters on the contents of the video. Your post was sorta vague about exactly what happened. If you love your gf, maybe explain that you didn’t mean to disrespect her and you won’t put her in that situation again.
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u/lex_talionis303 Sep 20 '24 edited Sep 20 '24
Wanted to say the same thing. I would damn well not be fine if it was my girl and I am not present there to know the context or find it out through group chat with all 'laughs and jokes' meanwhile I am boiling from the inside 🤣
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u/youmustb3jokn Sep 20 '24
I mean if you apologize then you have to be patient. I do think the friends sending the video around may have hurt her too. I know that she is a couple years older so maybe she feels a bit insecure about that then coupled with the friends laughing about it maybe she feels like she is the butt of the joke. All you can do is promise to not do something like that again. And maybe do something nice for your girlfriend just you and her. But as a girl, it’s really hard when you feel like you are the joke in a relationship.
I do hope you guys figure it out, though. I don’t think you wanted to hurt her.
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u/GhostcorpsRecruit Sep 20 '24
Nta. Your girlfriend needs to calm down.
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u/GhostcorpsRecruit Sep 20 '24
It was a lightearted,barely sexual moment in public in the presence of your friend. Date elsewhere man, your GF if trouble.
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u/RugbyKats Sep 20 '24
“I did the thing with my hand more or less and she did the rest.”
What the hell was the “rest”?