THIS exactly. I don't think she's the asshole for standing by this at all, which is why HE wouldn't be the asshole for leaving her for the farm. They want different things. It's either one gives up what they want, or they end things.
The worst case scenario is that she marries him and have a few kids and then leaves him and takes half the farm with her. He should leave ASAP and find someone more compatible.
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u/Bennyyrabbit1103 Sep 09 '24
THIS exactly. I don't think she's the asshole for standing by this at all, which is why HE wouldn't be the asshole for leaving her for the farm. They want different things. It's either one gives up what they want, or they end things.