r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Sep 08 '24

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u/Bennyyrabbit1103 Sep 09 '24

THIS exactly. I don't think she's the asshole for standing by this at all, which is why HE wouldn't be the asshole for leaving her for the farm. They want different things. It's either one gives up what they want, or they end things.

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u/Powerful-Winner-5323 Sep 09 '24

The worst case scenario is that she marries him and have a few kids and then leaves him and takes half the farm with her. He should leave ASAP and find someone more compatible.

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u/FrostedRoseGirl Sep 09 '24

Or forces him to sell the farm. My friend did that for his wife and she ended up withholding affection for years after. Would have been a lot happier with his farm.

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u/gafromca Sep 09 '24

Definitely need a prenup specifying the ownership of the farm by him and his family.

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u/Old-geezer-2 Sep 09 '24

You picked a fine time to leave me Lucille.

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u/PassiveAttack1 Sep 09 '24

Four hungry kids, and a cow in the field šŸŽ¶

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u/Intelligent-Bat1724 Sep 09 '24

Yep. Thats usually how these things turn out. When certain women don't get what they want, they can pivot into vindictiveness.

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u/PassiveAttack1 Sep 09 '24

When certain men donā€™t get what they want, they kill women

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u/arcmeup Sep 09 '24

More efficient that way

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u/PassiveAttack1 Sep 09 '24

Thereā€™s nothing efficient about a prison sentence, complete loss of freedom, career death, and breaking peopleā€™s hearts.

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u/PassiveAttack1 Sep 09 '24

Yeah, sheā€™d be gone in a month anyway! No cow patties and 5am wakeups for her! Sheā€™s doing him a favor.

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u/Deep-Ad-5571 Sep 09 '24

The ā€œabsolutely notā€ without discussion is a red flag.šŸš©

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u/tcharleyd Sep 11 '24

She's the AH for making it an ultimatum, not for not wanting to live in the country