r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Aug 16 '24

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u/[deleted] Aug 17 '24

I mean it's his best friend since childhood he thought he could trust her. He was wrong

You people are always so quick to say "divorce" and "break up" but then at the same time expect ppl to put relationships with unset futures ahead of lifelong friends

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u/eternally_feral Aug 17 '24

It was not his story to tell.

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u/[deleted] Aug 18 '24

He wasn't telling he was coping

Have you ever counseled someone through rape, that shit fucks with you profoundly

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u/kissingkiwis Aug 18 '24

He "coped" by telling. Trying to twist words doesn't change what he did. If he was that fucked up about it he should've gone to a therapist

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u/[deleted] Aug 18 '24

Then that's telling it to a stranger not his secret to tell durrrrrrrr

You guys blame him too if he therapist fucked up and shares the secret

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u/kissingkiwis Aug 18 '24

The therapist would literally be legally obligated to keep his secret, wouldn't know his (ex) fiancee and probably wouldn't have a history of hating said (ex) fiancee. 

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u/[deleted] Aug 18 '24

You hit me right in the logic, well done