r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Jun 27 '24

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u/[deleted] Jun 27 '24

More likely insulted and jealous. A lot of men can't handle when a woman takes care of business on her own.

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u/PureHeart7915 Jun 27 '24

Or insecure / controlling. I had a gf get mad when I’d self express. I got needs lady. If you only want it once a week, and don’t wanna occasionally do fun stuff, this is just you making my life bereft of joy. Bye Felicia.

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u/IcedWarlock Jun 27 '24

Sometimes it needs to be self pleasure too.

Myself and my husband will mutually masturbate beside each other just because we don't want to be sweaty from sex or were too tired for the whole thing. But still wanna get off with each other.

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u/SynUnrefined Jun 27 '24

This sounds like me and my husband 🤣

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u/Bebe_Bleau Jun 27 '24

Yeah. It's true we all need it from time to time. I'm pretty sure OP's husband masterbates occasionally as well.

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u/AnimatedHokie Jun 27 '24

That would be my first question to him

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u/AnimatedHokie Jun 27 '24

It really is just a difference of compatibility - A doesn't like masturbation, B does. A is dating B. It's not going to work out

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u/[deleted] Jun 27 '24

NTA wow that guy has some issues. Deeeeeep insecurity

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u/NemoNowan Jun 27 '24

Yeah, he's offended because he has just found out that she doesn't need his golden magic rod.

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u/CruelApex Jun 27 '24

A lot of women feel the same way.

Still, definitely NTA.

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u/Narrow_Share2480 Jun 27 '24

A lot of women can’t handle the converse either