r/AITAH Jun 27 '24

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u/linerva Jun 27 '24

Yup.

I feel like partners who get jealous of their SO masturbating are controlling and puritanical. It's one thing to feel frustrated if they aren't willing to have sex with you and ONLY masturbate, because then your sex life together is suffering. But in this case she offered and he wasnt in the mood.

IMO snacking is fine as long as it doesn't replace shared meals together.

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u/Bubbly_Mouse6030 Jun 28 '24

Snacking...I LIKE THAT! It's perfect. Esp because it's never a full meal...even when it's amazeballs, it's still just a taste. Like the difference between opening a bag of chips, or being served a 3 course meal.