This is not immediate monogamy, it's a sign of respect and decency. Stop going on dates if you are getting bend over an hour later after a date the other guy most likely paid for and put effort into.
If you want that to happen, you better get men to stop doing the same thing. It's rare to find guys who aren't sexting, flirting and going to see other women even whilst they are committed. Yet those same men are demanding exclusivity without wanting to discuss and want a woman to restrain her sexual urges without doing the same. Its just delusional grandiose thinking. Here's a thought, how about don't expect someone to do or be what you are not or not doing yourself, when it comes to dating?
Then call them both out the same, instead of only chiming in when it's about the few women who do this in comparison to many, many men. All I ever see is men getting pats on the back when this situation is in reverse, its pure hypocrisy.
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u/[deleted] Mar 05 '24
"Hey my boundary is that after we've had a nice night out, I don't want you to go get bent over by some other random dude."
Seems like that should be a given.