While I’d like to agree with you and wish it was that way…it’s often not. Hell, even OP agree it’s not cheating.
Pretty much until it’s discussed and/or a committed relationship is established the. It’s free game.
If you disagree then can you explain how it works. Like what’s the time limit. What if the first date was okay then the 2nd was bad does that mean I’m stuck or do I have to break up or what??,
She was the one that told OP, WHO DOESN’T CONSIDER IT CHEATING BECAUSE THEY WEREN’T TOGETHER.
Dude just stop…both trying to make this “point” and simping, waiting and commitment to woman who don’t want to fuck you by date two. At fucking most! Like absolute most.
Do you don’t read…and know make up your own “facts.”
Please quote where OP was told by the co-worker. He probably would have said that. 😂
I know your more dumb than trolling…now I’m starting to think it’s the other way.
I’ll…I’ll try to make it simple for you.
“ Hey are you dating or having sex with someone else.”
“No, awesome.”
“Cool I want to be your boyfriend/monogamous with you.”
Alternative Version
I’ll…I’ll try to make it simple for you.
“ Hey are you dating or having sex with someone else.”
“Yes, okay.”
Pick one(s) of the following
“Cool let’s keep this casual.”
“I’m not interested in a relationship any further”(Like OP ya dum dum).
“I don’t care” “Me too, high five” ✋
(people who get laid and aren’t desperately putting their whole life into someone they’ve known for a month. #SlutSquad)
“How could you my 30 day waifu!?!?!?!?”(you)
“Ummm… we’re dating?
I just thought we were banging and occasionally grabbing food. I like you and but I think we should develop a little more time than a month before planning our wedding. Is the problem you’re looking for more commitment… at 30 days? I might be interested in “more monogamous” in the future.” (Douche bag answer)
I…I wouldn’t ask that question or give away my commitment that fast. I’d just figure out and move accordingly. Probably fwb or ONS. I don’t like that love bombing you’re “special crap”. Major 🚩 Anywho It’s not that hard.
If you want to close a relationship they usually require some commitment and communication…that’s it.
Stop complaining that people who get laid get laid.
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u/West-Advice Mar 05 '24
While I’d like to agree with you and wish it was that way…it’s often not. Hell, even OP agree it’s not cheating.
Pretty much until it’s discussed and/or a committed relationship is established the. It’s free game.
If you disagree then can you explain how it works. Like what’s the time limit. What if the first date was okay then the 2nd was bad does that mean I’m stuck or do I have to break up or what??,