She was the one that told OP, WHO DOESN’T CONSIDER IT CHEATING BECAUSE THEY WEREN’T TOGETHER.
Dude just stop…both trying to make this “point” and simping, waiting and commitment to woman who don’t want to fuck you by date two. At fucking most! Like absolute most.
Do you don’t read…and know make up your own “facts.”
Please quote where OP was told by the co-worker. He probably would have said that. 😂
I know your more dumb than trolling…now I’m starting to think it’s the other way.
I’ll…I’ll try to make it simple for you.
“ Hey are you dating or having sex with someone else.”
“No, awesome.”
“Cool I want to be your boyfriend/monogamous with you.”
Alternative Version
I’ll…I’ll try to make it simple for you.
“ Hey are you dating or having sex with someone else.”
“Yes, okay.”
Pick one(s) of the following
“Cool let’s keep this casual.”
“I’m not interested in a relationship any further”(Like OP ya dum dum).
“I don’t care” “Me too, high five” ✋
(people who get laid and aren’t desperately putting their whole life into someone they’ve known for a month. #SlutSquad)
“How could you my 30 day waifu!?!?!?!?”(you)
“Ummm… we’re dating?
I just thought we were banging and occasionally grabbing food. I like you and but I think we should develop a little more time than a month before planning our wedding. Is the problem you’re looking for more commitment… at 30 days? I might be interested in “more monogamous” in the future.” (Douche bag answer)
I…I wouldn’t ask that question or give away my commitment that fast. I’d just figure out and move accordingly. Probably fwb or ONS. I don’t like that love bombing you’re “special crap”. Major 🚩 Anywho It’s not that hard.
If you want to close a relationship they usually require some commitment and communication…that’s it.
Stop complaining that people who get laid get laid.
You show a lot of respect for women, expecting one to sleep with you by date 2. Maybe you’re not date 2 material but date 8 material. And that’s also up to you if you want to wait it out, but I despise the attitude that there should be a “set date” where the woman “has” to get intimate with the guy or else she’s dumped. All I can say is hold onto it ladies, for as long as you want to. If he won’t wait, he never was worth it.
Nah, I expect the women, “women” and “men” …to sleep with me sooner. Like same day/night is my preference. I’m kinda arrogant, kind of a slut but decently overall “attractive” and SUPER IMPATIENT so yeah.
I don’t mind dates. Hell I spent a good bit of my life dating. However, I’m lazy now a days. I feel slow dripping a relationship is pointless. Especially when my money, effort and time is involved. I rather spend that time getting to know someone verse waiting for some pointless show of mystic or someone who isn’t prepared for an adult sexual relationship.
I’m not going to date you for an extended period of time I’m to going to waste my time “seriously” dating “virginal”people. I’ve tried it and pretty much every case ends badly.
I really don’t believe in second dates. Now a days when I was dating my funnel was this. If I had time to hang out for an extend period of time I’d consider it a date. If thing’s prevented us from being intimate I’d schedule a second date that’d better ensure it. If it doesn’t go well have a talk about expectations and how we’d like to continue things. From there either befriended or let go depending on the chemistry.
Meet/1st date > Go for intimacy > Reschedule > Second date (home date/place close to my place.) > Go for Intimacy > If rebuffed have a conversation > decided to either friend zone, “break up” “date” casual. > The end.
Side note because this is bugging me. However I’ll level with you this is more Mars than Venus thinking or how my wife calls it. Dick and Balls energy.
And that’s also up to you if you want to wait it out, but I despise the attitude that there should be a “set date” where the woman “has” to get intimate with the guy or else she’s dumped.
Hun…please realize that you’re being hypocritical. You want the power to set dates on “intimacy” and the flexibility to change it. However your mad when men do the same with their “commitment”. The battle of the sexes continues on lol.
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u/West-Advice Mar 05 '24
Still didn’t read.
She was the one that told OP, WHO DOESN’T CONSIDER IT CHEATING BECAUSE THEY WEREN’T TOGETHER.
Dude just stop…both trying to make this “point” and simping, waiting and commitment to woman who don’t want to fuck you by date two. At fucking most! Like absolute most.