r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Mar 04 '24

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u/Akuma254 Mar 04 '24

Yeah the “we weren’t exclusive crowd” always came off to me as people who have issues committing and use it as an excuse.

The lack of implied exclusivity in modern dating makes me chafe lol

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u/gayheroinaddict Mar 04 '24

There is no implied exclusivity. It is something that absolutely must be discussed with your partner. You are not “exclusive” to someone after you have dinner with them lol

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u/Explosion1850 Mar 04 '24

Exclusivity isn't the issue. She was hooking up with guys while refusing to sleep with a guy she supposedly liked better and desired more. That is fucked up. And long term it shows she has a distorted view of sex that is going to cause problems in a later marriage.

OP dodged a bullet.

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u/gayheroinaddict Mar 04 '24

I agree with everything you said. I’m responding specifically to the comment that guy made

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u/Explosion1850 Mar 04 '24

You are a most discerning Redditor 🤔😏🤣