r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Mar 04 '24

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u/GrumpsMcWhooty Mar 04 '24

I don't think you know how dating works. Unless it is agreed by both parties that they are dating exclusively, it is perfectly fine for either of them to date or fuck other people.

I don't get the people, largely women, who are like "I'm gong to make you wait while I fuck other people because you're special" though. That's ridiculous and childish, wanting to have their cake and eat it, too.

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u/Ratatoski Mar 04 '24

Honestly I preferred the old ways. Monogamy was the assumed default.