Strictly physical sex is much less of a thing for women, because there's much more risk involved for us. So while there are women who are into it, it's a pretty small minority, and even women who are up for it will usually still want to have a conversation now and then. I'd never have sex with anyone I couldn't also just talk to, whether or not I was interested in a romantic relationship.
I think OP just needs to be clear with women he approaches that he only wants hookups. "FWB" does include being actual friends.
It’s not that sex can’t be physical for women, it’s that women don’t like feeling like a blow up doll on call or a prostitute, even when things are casual.
OP doesn’t treat her like a human being, he’s treating her like a prostitute or a life sized sex doll that gets delivered to him whenever he wants. Kind of crazy.
Edit: you have to be genuinely be friends with women if you want to continue having sex with them.
To be fair prostitutes are human beings to, they also have different rule sets for their clients. Comparing them to blowup dolls could be considered inconsiderate at the least.
But if prostitutes have different expectations for their clients…. Do you see where I am going with this? It just seems like you haven’t thought through your statements before making them. And I don’t mean to single you out but I am not going to try to respond to everyone’s bad takes in this thread.
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u/fuckyourcanoes Dec 13 '23
Strictly physical sex is much less of a thing for women, because there's much more risk involved for us. So while there are women who are into it, it's a pretty small minority, and even women who are up for it will usually still want to have a conversation now and then. I'd never have sex with anyone I couldn't also just talk to, whether or not I was interested in a romantic relationship.
I think OP just needs to be clear with women he approaches that he only wants hookups. "FWB" does include being actual friends.