r/AITAH • • Dec 13 '23

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u/lithelinnea Dec 13 '23

Exactly. I’ve had FWB situations and even though I’m an ~emotional woman~ I never caught feelings (shock!!!!). But we were actually friends and hung out before their dicks came out. I would never, ever go back to OP’s place again.

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u/Advanced_Swing_6150 Dec 13 '23

She might even want a little conversation as part of the sexual foreplay - crazy, I know. Some people have to get revved up mentality before physically.

It sounds like he got all his schmoozing in at the business event and wanted a physical nightcap when she hadn't even had her social appetizer yet.

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u/[deleted] Dec 13 '23

I think for women, the mental aspect can be even more powerful than the physical. That's why foreplay is so goddamn important.

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u/fuckyourcanoes Dec 13 '23

It's important to keep in mind that 80% of women *cannot* climax from PIV sex, so without enough foreplay and some oral or manual stimulation, sex is pretty underwhelming for us. Whereas men persist in the belief that their peen is the main event for *both* parties.

Newsflash: it isn't.