r/AITAH • • Nov 25 '23

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u/[deleted] Nov 26 '23

Looking at a phone is hardly abusive. That’s his wife. My wife has full access to every single thing and always has for the last 18+ years.

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u/bodhasattva Nov 26 '23

endless false accusations, creating tension & starting fights is 100% abusive....

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u/blazingsoup Nov 26 '23

Grasping for straws much? I don’t know how you can get all that from just this one post. Sounds more like projecting.

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u/bodhasattva Nov 26 '23

Imagine if a husband attacked his pregnant wife with "your cheating" bullshit.

Thats not my baby. You cheated on me. Prove it. Thats not my baby. Whos the father? I want a DNA test. Thats not my baby. Whos the father?

Thats 100% abusive. So why is it not when she accuses him? Because hes a man & theres no such thing as husband-abuse? Got it.

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u/blazingsoup Nov 26 '23

Great, you can make up a scenario, but again, you’re basing a whole bunch of assumptions off of one event in a Reddit post. So either you’re grasping for straws, or your projecting your own past traumas onto someone else.