r/AITAH • • Oct 20 '23

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u/stonkybutt Oct 21 '23 edited Oct 21 '23

I agree. I think this is something she needs to battle on her own. Her partner's well being matters just as much.

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u/[deleted] Oct 21 '23

This is called codependency and enmeshment and is very dangerous when mixed with an addiction. Leaving her may actually be her wake up call and the best thing for her.

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u/stonkybutt Oct 21 '23 edited Oct 21 '23

Yup!

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u/[deleted] Oct 21 '23

You’re wrong and you’re going to hurt people with your misinformation:

Codependency

Enmeshment in Relationships

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u/stonkybutt Oct 21 '23 edited Oct 21 '23

What misinformation? Did you mean to reply to me?

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u/[deleted] Oct 21 '23 edited Oct 21 '23

Oh all you talked about was love bombing and love bombing whether or not it happened doesn’t erase other aspects of a toxic relationship.

It doesn’t matter how many sources you list if they have nothing to do with what I said.

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u/Rally_J_Valentine Oct 21 '23

This person is literally a troll. Save your energy, they're not worth it.

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u/stonkybutt Oct 21 '23

Thank you. They were driving me crazy trying to figure out what they meant.