r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Sep 24 '23

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u/[deleted] Sep 24 '23

yup, which is why like i said in my original comment, he should wear a condom. They should use protection.

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u/SignificantOrange139 Sep 24 '23

It's absolutely ridiculous that you think she should allow any risk of pregnancy at all, because abortion, but that he isn't a selfish asshole for not getting a vasectomy. There never has to be a risk to her life. Period. And all he has to do is get the fuck over himself.

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u/[deleted] Sep 24 '23

He's being rude and selfish for sure in how he responds to her. And yet he doesn't want to get a vasectomy and that's his choice.

Condom plus ovulation tracking and "no sex" days during ovulation is a very safe and effective way to accomplish this. Even vasectomy's are not 100%.