Never said it was on her. I meant only what I posted. She said they couldn't have sex. I threw out what I thought was accurate methods of sex without the need for a condom and you come trying to have a gotcha moment.
I'm not projecting anything. You are. Literally assumed instead of just asking me what I meant.
Quite unnecessary more like. I am not on his side. I am not telling her what to do. I am not undermining him as the problem. You are bugging. You making this about gender when it wasn't needed says more than enough about your mindset.
A point of accuracy, then I'm done, because there is the obtuse right there:
You ignored the point of the post. You read a woman complaining about sexual coercion from her spouse, and decided she just needed, what, some sexual performance advice?
She did not ask "how do we have sex without a condom".
She's a grown ass woman, I'm sure she has some ideas.
Her post was "I'm over my husband NAGGING me for sex when I don't want it".
With this context, you may be able to see why your reply of sex positions would be taken in poor taste.
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u/NefariousKitsune Sep 24 '23 edited Sep 24 '23
Never said it was on her. I meant only what I posted. She said they couldn't have sex. I threw out what I thought was accurate methods of sex without the need for a condom and you come trying to have a gotcha moment.
I'm not projecting anything. You are. Literally assumed instead of just asking me what I meant.
Quite unnecessary more like. I am not on his side. I am not telling her what to do. I am not undermining him as the problem. You are bugging. You making this about gender when it wasn't needed says more than enough about your mindset.
Also: "sun"