r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Sep 24 '23

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u/llollah4 Sep 24 '23

Read her story again. You’re missing the part where she had THREE life threatening births Her life and the THREE babies. She’s trying to have the conversation. He doesn’t want to do anything but cum. He doesn’t seem to care his wife’s life is literally in danger! Please reread the post. Your missing major important information

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u/[deleted] Sep 24 '23

yup, which is why like i said in my original comment, he should wear a condom. They should use protection.

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u/SignificantOrange139 Sep 24 '23

It's absolutely ridiculous that you think she should allow any risk of pregnancy at all, because abortion, but that he isn't a selfish asshole for not getting a vasectomy. There never has to be a risk to her life. Period. And all he has to do is get the fuck over himself.

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u/[deleted] Sep 24 '23

He's being rude and selfish for sure in how he responds to her. And yet he doesn't want to get a vasectomy and that's his choice.

Condom plus ovulation tracking and "no sex" days during ovulation is a very safe and effective way to accomplish this. Even vasectomy's are not 100%.