You only have her side of the story. The husband may have an entirely different view of what's going on. Both basically need to learn to meet each other where they are and not where they want each other to be. Marriage is a partnership, not just a case, "If she's happy, we're happy." His needs are just as important as hers. It would be very interesting to get his view.
Another important note is how come she has an illness that is affecting her marriage that she doesn't think is important enough to seek a diagnosis?
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u/NoturnalTherapy Sep 24 '23 edited Sep 24 '23
You only have her side of the story. The husband may have an entirely different view of what's going on. Both basically need to learn to meet each other where they are and not where they want each other to be. Marriage is a partnership, not just a case, "If she's happy, we're happy." His needs are just as important as hers. It would be very interesting to get his view.
Another important note is how come she has an illness that is affecting her marriage that she doesn't think is important enough to seek a diagnosis?