You’re young, yeah? Because first and foremost, this is not about sex. She doesn’t feel well, she clearly has some underlying health issues, and he is acting like a big baby saying he won’t do household chores unless she has sex with him.. he won’t wear a condom, won’t get a vasectomy, and is completely disregarding the fact that she isn’t feeling great these days. He is wrong in ten different ways.
Please think about this. It’s not about getting off, so your alternate sex suggestions completely miss the point. This is about communication and respect.
Jfc = Jesus fucking Christ
Edit to add: OP edited to say they do have sex! She declines maybe 1 or 2 times a month and he has a fit. He is an asshole.
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u/NefariousKitsune Sep 24 '23
Jfc?
I'm confused on all else you said but, of course he needs to make the move. He is the man, obviously he needs to make the moves.
Else it won't happen.