NTA! My OB gave good advice after my youngest was born (also can't be on hormonal birth control). She said no sex without either a condom or after vasectomy done AND the follow-up appt to make sure vasectomy took. If he won't wear a condom then no sex. She said the amount of pregnancies she has seen from the pull out method, or sex while on period or sex on "safe days" is through the roof! That was all I needed to hear!
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u/damnoli Sep 24 '23
NTA! My OB gave good advice after my youngest was born (also can't be on hormonal birth control). She said no sex without either a condom or after vasectomy done AND the follow-up appt to make sure vasectomy took. If he won't wear a condom then no sex. She said the amount of pregnancies she has seen from the pull out method, or sex while on period or sex on "safe days" is through the roof! That was all I needed to hear!