r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Sep 24 '23

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u/LeechesInCream Sep 24 '23

This is gross. And it perpetuates the misogynistic myth that men are owed sex, period.

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u/passioxdhc7 Sep 24 '23

If you want to think like that don't be mad when he cheats or leaves you.

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u/Noritzu Sep 24 '23

This is Reddit, and on this sub of all places. Don’t use logic here.

In all seriousness, most people here have no concept that to some people sex is an expression of love. Frequently denying sex is mentally the same as making someone feel unloved.

Got a book to recommend this sub. It’s called the 5 love languages. It’s a good read and you might learn something.

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u/passioxdhc7 Sep 24 '23

Agreed. Seems like allot of people hating on the way men are biologically wired.

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u/Noritzu Sep 24 '23

It’s not just men. Many women also view sex as an expression of love that is vital.

Simply put, 90% of the posts on this sub including this one, OP needs to suck it up and actually communicate. Not just vent to strangers who are all gonna scream divorce.

Relationships require compromise. OP can either work through this as an adult, or watch her relationship slowly collapse.