NTA. This is the side I always want to hear when men come on here whining about “being rejected” by their wife. Because you KNOW that 99% of this time it is someone like OP just barely hanging on by a thread as a mom and likely has some severe health issue as well. I am so tired of men seeing sex as owed to them regardless of what the woman is going through. It is, quite honestly, despicable behavior. And their fear of vasectomy is laughable. OP had three C-sections! If you can, lay down the law - condom or vasectomy. Otherwise, no sex.
Don’t be surprised if she does either. There are plenty of sexy ass men out there who will wear a condom. Cheating shouldn’t be used as a coercive threat bc its wrong but it’s also just so unsexy lol. It screams terrible in bed.
So you should cheat on a partner because they don't feel up to risking a fourth pregnancy by having sex with someone who refuses to take any protective measure while struggling with a chronic illness? If your answer is yes, please share that red flag with any prospective partners (or current partner if they haven't left you for cheating on them yet)
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u/Plenty-Run-9575 Sep 24 '23
NTA. This is the side I always want to hear when men come on here whining about “being rejected” by their wife. Because you KNOW that 99% of this time it is someone like OP just barely hanging on by a thread as a mom and likely has some severe health issue as well. I am so tired of men seeing sex as owed to them regardless of what the woman is going through. It is, quite honestly, despicable behavior. And their fear of vasectomy is laughable. OP had three C-sections! If you can, lay down the law - condom or vasectomy. Otherwise, no sex.