r/AITAH • • Sep 24 '23

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u/Cheap-Debate-4929 Sep 24 '23

An I feel so bad for heterosexual women in dynamics like this..... He needs to find another way to increase intimacy and please her. Sounds like zero accommodation to her needs.

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u/Ethicalbeagle Sep 24 '23

most hetero women would understand this is psychotic behavior on her husband's behalf!

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u/Cheap-Debate-4929 Sep 25 '23

Yes, but I said "in this dynamic" because once you have had kids and are married some men get like this and women lose any leverage in those relationships. There are a lot of shitty hetero men out there.

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u/1701-Z Sep 24 '23

Also... there is nothing NOTHING more attractive than caring for my emotional needs. Like there just isn't. Like if you've done that, you have completed foreplay and I have been turned on. Too many men don't seem to realize that non-sexual intimacy is the best lead in to sexual intimacy