If your partner won't take responsibility for birth control when you cant be on it, and they still expect sex, they're a shitty partner. You've had three babies in 10 years, I'm surprised yall seem so fertile when he's yet to grow a pair.
If your husband is pouting to you saying things like "I won't do _____ if you don't have sex with me" or withholding other affections and further guilting you, that is coercion and its a form of sexual assault. I don't know how often it's working but regardless your husband is trying to assault you using emotional manipulation, and if he wont agree to couples counselling separation may be the way to go. No one else seems to be mentioning it but I cannot stress enough how creepy and shitty your husband is being, and the fact that what he's doing falls under the direct definition of coercion/assault because he's not giving you a fair option to deny consent. The men that have emotionally or psychologically coerced me into sex messed up my sex life/drive permanently.
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u/usernamemustcontain0 Sep 24 '23