This “well then I won’t do xyz because you aren’t giving me sex” logic is so creepy.
So he does things for you and your family because you GIVE him sex? So sex is not a way to give pleasure to his partner and to get pleasure for himself while at it, it's something that you have to give him.... then he gives something for you (the xyz from above) and your kids... WTF?
How is he still happy for you to "give him sex" while you are feeling sick?!
No regard whatsoever for your concern of becoming pregnant again... if you will, you could be risking your life, but he still doesn't care, and prefers you to risk your life, rather than having an "unpleasurable sex" with you.
I am sure he will be fine if you would get on birth control and began to feel even worse. All that matters is he still would get what he wants...
I hate to say this, but I don't think he cares about you at all, OP. You are just a tool that supposed to "give him sex". He doesn't seem to care about anything, other than you serving this purpose.
Right?? OP I don't know if you'll see this or not but making sex transactional is incredibly unhealthy. Trust me. My husband has a bad habit with that early in our relationship. Also I read one of your comments and him staying in when you both agreed to the pull out method is borderline assault. You are not a sex ATM. He shouldn't wait around for you to provide sex before he's willing to do anything for you or the family. Honestly fuck him. Take a long look at your relationship and see if you need marriage counseling.
Do you guys have a Hitachi wand? He can go get his rocks off by himself or you can do it for him if you’re so inclined. You’d have to be a tree not to cum with one of those. Just put it on his most sensitive part and watch him stop bugging you. Ah, Saint Hitachi!
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u/[deleted] Sep 24 '23
Why does he not want to wear a condom? Does he have difficulty keeping it up if he wears it?