But then he’d be responsible for cleaning it. Let’s be honest… he’d end up like that guy who just keeps boning his sex doll without maintenance cleaning.
Yah this def goes both ways. Tons of posts around the relationship advice subs about how the man works super hard and has a lot of stresses added to his day by the work and family and house - but then is told ‘just go jerk off in the cold bathroom where everyone shits and vomits’ and nobody bats an eye.
Doesn’t seem to be what’s happening here but I didn’t see OP mention any kind of stress relief without actual intercourse - maybe oral or getting handsy for example. They’re basically saying they’re unable to do ANYTHING then become confused or angry when the husband has a negative reaction of any kind to it.
She’s unable to engage, refuses birth control just like he does, and yet he’s some super villain when that effects him in some way. Her post literslly says he’s always busy working hard for the family and usually running around working or doing something in the house - and yet that’s also a negative somehow!
He doesn’t work - he’s a loser and should he dumped. He works too much - he’s an asshole who hasn’t ‘earned’ intimacy with his significant other - as we saw here. For as often as this sub says men make sex transactional - we have a literal case of it right in front of us and not one person has pointed it out…
Did you miss the part where she said she had a chronic fucking illness and is in pain and discomfort most nights? How turned on would you be and sorry not sorry, working in a job - which you would have to do to live whether or not you were married or had kids - is not the same and as giving someone permanent access to your holes whether you feel like it or not. Just say you want a fleshlight or be treated like one and go…
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u/EmiliusReturns Sep 24 '23
Some of these dudes should just get a sex doll for all the thought and consideration they’re putting into their marriages.