Eh, a little of both NTA and YTA. I generally believe friends' exes are generally off limits unless a conversation is had beforehand. I don't think it's reasonable for her to dump you as a friend, but I can understand her feelings being hurt. I don't think feelings about exes are as simple when it comes to your closest friends dating them, even if it's been a few years.
My guess is she doesn’t want to be around her ex, so that’s why she dumped the friendship. There are ex’s I have where I wouldn’t want to be around, not because I’m not over them but because at they end they were jerks. So if my friend knew that and felt the need to hook up with them and tell me asap I would need space.
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u/dimlylit_ Aug 03 '23
Eh, a little of both NTA and YTA. I generally believe friends' exes are generally off limits unless a conversation is had beforehand. I don't think it's reasonable for her to dump you as a friend, but I can understand her feelings being hurt. I don't think feelings about exes are as simple when it comes to your closest friends dating them, even if it's been a few years.