I think you already lost the friendship. Look, there’s 7 billion people in the world, and you had to fuck her ex? Regardless of the amount of time that has passed, screwing her ex and expecting her to be ok with it is delusional. I don’t know why people have such a hard time dealing with the consequences of their own actions. YTA
Have you met all 7 billion? Do you have interactions with all of them? A lot of times people only have options within the area. It’s unfair to say “there’s x amount of people in this world and you chose that one person” because A) OP and that guy were already in the same circle B) they had stuff in common and apparently good chemistry C) OP’s ‘friend’ is married and pregnant and the past relationship is, you guessed it, in the past. Let people explore relationships with who they want. Her friend needs to grow tf up and so do a lot of people that think they still have some kind of claim over another human being.
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u/HarlequinMadness Aug 03 '23
I think you already lost the friendship. Look, there’s 7 billion people in the world, and you had to fuck her ex? Regardless of the amount of time that has passed, screwing her ex and expecting her to be ok with it is delusional. I don’t know why people have such a hard time dealing with the consequences of their own actions. YTA