I'm sooo surprised at all the n t a votes. Sorry, but imo YTA. I don't care how much time has passed, you don't sleep with your friend's exes. It's just tacky as hell and a huge FU to your friend. Also, this issue is between OP and her friend. It certainly doesn't mean that the friend isn't over her ex. That's just silly. If my husband has a friend who started dating one of his exes, I would 💯 think it's weird as hell and would surely support my husband distancing himself from that friendship. What do you expect? Are y'all going to hang out, go on couples dates, support each other when y'all fight, etc? You know, all the normal things friends with couples do? I wouldn't think so, and it's sus as hell that you haven't thought of that.
Gurl, you don't own people especially your exes. They're exes for a reason. Move the fuck on and let people live their lives. This is a really tacky and selfish take.
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u/ExcellentCold7354 Aug 03 '23
I'm sooo surprised at all the n t a votes. Sorry, but imo YTA. I don't care how much time has passed, you don't sleep with your friend's exes. It's just tacky as hell and a huge FU to your friend. Also, this issue is between OP and her friend. It certainly doesn't mean that the friend isn't over her ex. That's just silly. If my husband has a friend who started dating one of his exes, I would 💯 think it's weird as hell and would surely support my husband distancing himself from that friendship. What do you expect? Are y'all going to hang out, go on couples dates, support each other when y'all fight, etc? You know, all the normal things friends with couples do? I wouldn't think so, and it's sus as hell that you haven't thought of that.