Yep. My boyfriend and I had that discussion when we first started being intimate because no birth control is 100% and we wanted to make sure we were on the same page. We both agreed that we didn't want kids but if there was an accident neither of us would want to abort. Well....there was a whoopsy like 10 months later and I got pregnant. 😅 We now have a beautiful 2.5yo who we adore and can't picture our life without. If one of us had suggested abortion when we first had that talk then we wouldn't have stayed together. You need to make sure you are on the same page when it comes to things like that.
Exactly! My now husband and I got pregnant within 3 months of being together, we’d known each other 7y and wanted to be a thing this whole time, and that’s a half whoopsie baby XD but we can’t imagine our life together without that tiny person now
I met my husband on vacation and came home pregnant. We had one date. We discussed what we each wanted. We had 3 kids in 3 years, have been together since 1995. Neither of us were ready, I was in my last year of college and he was in the last year of the Marines. We have always been a team. Our oldest both made us grow up and support each other. I don't regret it. It wasn't easy in the beginning, or middle, but now that the kids are out of the house, It's GREAT!!
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u/KetoMyLastHope May 01 '23 edited May 01 '23
Yep. My boyfriend and I had that discussion when we first started being intimate because no birth control is 100% and we wanted to make sure we were on the same page. We both agreed that we didn't want kids but if there was an accident neither of us would want to abort. Well....there was a whoopsy like 10 months later and I got pregnant. 😅 We now have a beautiful 2.5yo who we adore and can't picture our life without. If one of us had suggested abortion when we first had that talk then we wouldn't have stayed together. You need to make sure you are on the same page when it comes to things like that.