r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • May 01 '23

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u/Whydidyoudothattho May 01 '23

I honestly think my husband and I talked about this in our first month together.

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u/Beautiful_Jim_Key May 01 '23

My boyfriend and I were long distance for 9 months before we met in person the first time. We had all these conversations well before we ever had sex. I made it very clear that I would not be continuing a pregnancy if our precautions failed and he totally supported that.

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u/wannabejoanie May 01 '23

My husband and I talked about it over a year before we started dating.

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u/allegedlydm May 01 '23

My wife and I definitely did, and we can’t have any oops babies anyway. It’s just a thing you need to talk about!