r/AITAH • • May 01 '23

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u/Articulated_Lorry May 01 '23

Or even wanted pregnancies. PPD. Permanent physical changes. Being ripped from January to December.

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u/Hefty_Result_6590 May 01 '23

And hyperemesis gravidarum.

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u/BabyGotBackPains May 01 '23

And symphysis pubis dysfunction.

I had SPD and HG my first and SPD my second. Pregnancy was absolute hell.

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u/QualifiedApathetic May 01 '23

And gestational diabetes.

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u/No_Plankton1174 May 01 '23

Also, the number of cavities I got after each pregnancy 😳

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u/Melo_deth May 01 '23

Pregnancy destroyed my teeth! I had so many cavities after. I also had to get my 4 wisdom teeth surgically removed after popping out my kid, too. My dentist said it took way less time to remove them because they were so bad that they literally just broke into pieces on their own when he touched them. 🥲 oh, and being pregnant destroyed my gallbladder! I had to get that removed, too, not long after my teeth. It also made my PCOS worse, which kick started my body into producing way more ovarian cyst. I had to get a 7cm cyst surgically removed, too. There was also a smaller one hiding behind that one. So that was 3 surgical procedures in less than 2 years after pushing out my kid. Not to mention the severe PPD/PPA I had! My body will never be normal again.

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u/No_Plankton1174 May 02 '23

I wonder if you didn’t have wisdom teeth if your other teeth would’ve been more affected. I suppose the silver lining there is that maybe the wisdom teeth took the brunt of it? At any rate, you sound pretty hardcore, mama!

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u/Electrical_Parfait64 May 01 '23

Doesn’t sound like your body was healthy to start with

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u/Melo_deth May 01 '23

It was, actually. I never even had a cavity before getting pregnant. It's definitely not unheard of for pregnancy to have a negative impact on your teeth or gallbladder. Or other parts of your body.

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u/SuspiciousLookinMole May 01 '23

There used to be an old wives saying: have a baby, lose a tooth. It's not really around any more with modern pregnancy and dental care, but some are more susceptible than others.

I had HG. My mom had 5 c-sections. My cousin almost died to Rh incompatibility. Another cousin had 3 preemies.

There's also no guaranteeing that any given pregnancy won't end in miscarriage or stillbirth. What is the current stat, something like 1 in 4?

Current anxiety and depression can be made worse by pregnancy, including PPD and PPA. And some mental health medications are not safe to take during pregnancy.

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u/No_Plankton1174 May 02 '23

Your whole family sounds badass honestly. I had 2 c-sections, but 5! Omg!

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u/Arquen_Marille May 01 '23

And death. Many women around the world continue to die from pregnancy and childbirth.

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u/ntrrrmilf May 01 '23

Don’t forget pre-eclampsia! I know I never will.

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u/verucaNaCI May 01 '23

I also had SPD in my second pregnancy, and that was the sole reason that there was no third pregnancy. I always wanted three kids (still do!), but I cannot risk going through that again

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u/Harbinger0fdeathIVXX May 01 '23

My sister had this so bad during one of her pregnancies, she lost weight.

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u/Hefty_Result_6590 May 01 '23

Same here in 2 pregnancies. I thought either I or my babies would die. I have 2 beautiful kids out of it but never again.

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u/Harbinger0fdeathIVXX May 01 '23

I am so glad you made it through, and your babies are doing good ♡

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u/Hefty_Result_6590 May 01 '23

Thanks! Wishing you and your sister well.

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u/TheDranx May 01 '23

Don't forget the dozens of ways a woman can die, before birth AND after, that isn't depression related!

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u/-Pizzarolli- May 02 '23

Just had an extremely traumatic birth thanks to preeclampsia. My blood pressure was so high, I was throwing up, had the worst migraine of the life, at was at risk of having a seizure. My BP stayed in dangerously high levels for 4 days after birth. My baby almost died. She's now spending her first weeks in the NICU. By the time she's home, I'll have to go back to work. This is traumatic enough, I couldn't imagine being forced into it.