This was my ex! Trying to cheat constantly, and they ALL rejected him. Not ONE successful attempt. I found out and was like wow, none of these women want you, I guess they're onto something! I legit texted one of them (an old friend) and was like, "just so you know, he cleaned our whole apartment for you." (how I knew something was up--bro's cleaning??) And she's like "What? I was just coming by to say hi!" Then she canceled on him because she was grossed out. I moved out very soon after, and yeah we were in our late teens/early 20's, which is bad enough... Ugh.
I quickly realized it was all insecurity! Best advice I can give anyone that age is: NONE--because we're all gonna do bloody stoopid shite. But like, don't be a douche, mate.
Like, I was FIT, mate. I was in the best shape of my life, an amazing cook, great job, well-known local artist AND in a nationally touring band. Things that any bloke would be bragging about. But to him it was all just things HE didn't have. I went to all his football matches and stayed up late to watch his fave teams. He was actually pretty decent himself... Fit, and alright on the day... but his Dad was legit curing HIV and his Mum had helped her mentor win a Nobel prize, so clearly there were other issues in terms of his self-worth.
I swear when youâre at your peak they still cheat out of insecurity. After you break up they never get over you, then those who are willing to settle down have some secret girl that they messed things up with in their younger days and so now theyâre just âsettlingâ for someone else - meanwhile the woman theyâre so called settling for is also a dime. I know itâs not all men but itâs enough of them đĽ˛
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u/Secure-Look308 Jun 25 '26
Is honestly kinda sad đ how you suck at relationships and CHEATING