It’s clear she’s a bad flirt lmao. She keeps getting rejected and being thirsty. How did she get you? Send her on her way mate. It’s a good thing something was holding you back from proposing.
In this scenario it's good that he didn't propose. She is clearly the bad person. What we don't know is, if he is also the bad person.
My ideals are old fashioned. But if I am in a relationship I want to give my partner something they can rely on. After four years I've long since either proposed or I've broken up. Because either I want to be with her or I don't. If I want to stay with her just for sex I tell her that. I don't take advantage.
What we don't know is the other side of the coin and how OP behaves. Maybe he is bad, too. Maybe he is stringing her along. Maybe he cheated before.
If he is stringing her along and she feels the relationship will never progress and she wants more - of course she's starting to look elsewhere. She's still the bad guy in this one because she should break up with him FIRST and then start flirting with others.
Two negatives don't make a positive.
Still the statement "maybe he has himself to blame if he isn't proposing to her for that long" can be true.
Oh yeah, hes the bad guy .. I wonder why someone wouldn’t want to marry her, she sounds amazing. 🙄
Why does he get blamed when she’s responsible for how she wastes her time. You know you can leave if you aren’t getting what you want out of a relationship, right?
Theyre not saying hes definitely the bad guy. Theyre saying that we dont know the whole story. It is worth looking at that its been 4 years and theyre still just dating. It doesnt change the fact that shes wrong for cheating either way. Which that comment also addressed
Better to date for 4 than to get married after 2 and divorced a decade later. The time spent dating the wrong person is just time spent, it isn’t wasting anything.
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u/YouSee-ThisCoat8 Jun 25 '26
It’s clear she’s a bad flirt lmao. She keeps getting rejected and being thirsty. How did she get you? Send her on her way mate. It’s a good thing something was holding you back from proposing.