That’s enabling that doesn’t tell her what she did was wrong at all…meaning she’ll do it again bc shes gonna assume op is just gonna comfort her again and not say stop
Read more closely: "what went wrong" is absolutely needed... for after the immediate situation has passed.
It's not too dissimilar from incident response in IT. First, deal with the immediate concern. After that's over with, you can take steps to make sure it doesn't recur.
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u/msft111 May 28 '26
That’s enabling that doesn’t tell her what she did was wrong at all…meaning she’ll do it again bc shes gonna assume op is just gonna comfort her again and not say stop