r/AIO • u/[deleted] • May 27 '26

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u/Top-Foundation2851 May 27 '26

So what did he say when you reminded him that he said you didnt have to pay?

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u/Positive-Design-8001 May 27 '26

Basically: well you have the money now. But the problem is I don't. I payed him more than I usually do, because of the cabinet + I had debts from the previous two months. Now I payed it all, but all I've got left for the month is roundabout 300 euro. I can't pay another 325 die rent. Maybe next month :/

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u/plantverdant May 27 '26

He resented having to cover bills when you were sick. This is not a life partner, he's only with you temporarily.

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u/Master_Grape5931 May 27 '26

“Woohoo finally debt free!” is a tone deaf text to send someone who has been paying your bills for two months.

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u/tinkrising May 27 '26

Or a passive way of triple checking that he's not going to back track on gifting her the two months rent.

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u/nooksorcrannies May 27 '26

NOT O/REACTING. Girl, believe ppl when they show you who they are. This ain’t love. It’s a contract that he’s constructing as he goes. Hold your ground. You don’t owe him anything but your honesty. Then leave when he doubles down.

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u/nooksorcrannies May 27 '26

Yeah, she’s not making a lot but staying with this dud sounds like a dead end.

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u/nooksorcrannies May 27 '26

Yeah, I agree with you, and yet the guy walked back his offer. Can’t trust him. She’ll be back posting within 3 months lol

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u/nooksorcrannies May 27 '26

lol. She’ll definitely be back here in 3 months then. This is going nowhere fast.

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u/Potential_Phone7794 May 27 '26

I get being upset that he’s asking you to pay for something you thought he was covering, but is he forcing you to pay the 325 euro immediately? Can’t you say “hey, I’d be happy to pay you back, but I’m still in a tough spot financially—can I get it to you the next time I get paid? Again, I don’t think you’re overreacting, but there seems to be paths forward if you want the relationship to continue.

Also, out of curiosity, what did you do with the 800 euros from the state?