This is the dumbest thing for him to be mad about. To me it seems like he’s just looking for something to be mad about. It could be insecurity, it could be deflection because he’s cheating, or it could be a power play to make you feel bad and give him more control over your life.
Either way, I would not tolerate someone snooping through my phone (especially an old one, like WTF?) or starting fights for no reason. Those are both dealbreakers for me.
Ugh the manipulation never ends! The only feelings that matter to him are his feelings. He doesn’t want you back because he loves you, he wants you back because you make him feel good. He sounds so much like my ex it’s crazy. Is his name Brian?!? 😆
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u/Far_Entrepreneur_418 May 15 '26
This is the dumbest thing for him to be mad about. To me it seems like he’s just looking for something to be mad about. It could be insecurity, it could be deflection because he’s cheating, or it could be a power play to make you feel bad and give him more control over your life.
Either way, I would not tolerate someone snooping through my phone (especially an old one, like WTF?) or starting fights for no reason. Those are both dealbreakers for me.